Cordova installation on Mac 10.15.3

You first need to install cordova, that's where you issue is. Run a system check and enter your password where requested so cordova can be installed.
That's why you don't have the platform toolbar enabled ...

Setup your site first, create simple html file, run it and worry about the database connections then.
Database connections with mobile or desktop apps work the same and this has been discussed many times here:

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