@Mozzi just use a "message" dynamic event on the socket client side component..
As type select "emitbidandrefresha"
On action choose load server connect..
As far as I know the "message" will be fired for only those inside that room
It's the same example for the alert I posted above but instead showing an alert, choose load server connect..
ooohhh ok.. let me give that a go…. thanks seems pretty straight forward.. “but if you dont know you dont know” so thanks for always assisting…
That worked.. thank you so so much…. does not help spending hours and hours baning your head, it helps asking… its all starting to make sense now.. thanks
So you going to do a tutorial when you have it working Mozzi? 
I suck at that.. 
But so far what @franse has provided at the top with those screenshots.. you cant go wrong… and all is looking good.. i was just so confused about how it works.. but with the “message” action / call makes it great.. as you can then use it client side to refresh the data for that room only……
I would have never figured it out if it wasnt for @franse ….. so Kudos to him…
ps! i understand the team cant document everthing……
@franse once again.. thank you for your help.. it worked like a charm…
Your room tutorials was on point..
No problem at all, I just shared what I've learn from others who also give me a hand when I need it (so many, I can't name them all) glad you got it working!