Getting house-level accuracy is going to be extremely difficult, simply because OSM planet maps are very poor on this level (if at all).
To provide house-level accuracy, an additional layer is required of all country-level house locations.
For example, for the US, the TIGER 2018 census data can be added to get high-quality US-level houses (although this adds an additional 10GB to the OSM database).
That’s going to be extremely difficult and lengthy to find similar OSM-compatible data for all countries, which could explain why you’re finding it difficult to get that level of accuracy. If you find anything for continental europe that can be used for Nominatim (the OSM interface), I’m all ears!